Have you ever felt a feeling of uncertainty when trying to do something because you do not feel conﬁdent enough? A number of people do suffer from non-conﬁdence and end up living a life as people pleasers. Muhammed Ali has said that as long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval you are setting yourself up for disaster.
Conﬁdence is something that many people struggle within their everyday life and is seen in simple instances like wearing a certain outﬁt to impress not to express who you are, talking with no conﬁdence and slouching when walking.
Conﬁdence is a necessity because it gives people a sense of self worth, makes people love themselves more and makes people take more risks thus a successful and more fulﬁlling life. An important part of etiquette is conﬁdence, do you have the conﬁdence to say out your opinion or to wear whatever that you want even if society does not approve? A simple solution to this is to get rid of your fear of people and just do it.
Start by loving yourself and appreciating yourself more by realising all the positive things about you. The more you practice being conﬁdent in the way you talk, the way you walk the more you get used to doing whatever you want without thinking about anyone. It does take time and the more you do it the more conﬁdent you will be.
Remind yourself everyday how special and unique you are and take it up on yourself to become more conﬁdent because no one will give it to you. Conﬁdence breeds independence so just be you and be conﬁdent about it.
Self conﬁdence is important and there are different strategies that can be done in order to be more conﬁdent. To be more conﬁdent you need to smile more, smiling helps in feeling better and
By: Moreblessing Chipangura